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FEMALE, 22. AUGUSTA, GA. April 2025.

I was at a friend's house and she was having some people over. I was drinking, but not drunk. I thought everyone there was okay, but... I fell asleep on the couch--I had there before--but I woke up in the middle of the night with this guy--who seemed harmless --with his hand in the front of my pants. When he saw I was awake, he started kissing me, like we had been making out before. We hadn't. I was fast asleep. I started freaking out and he left. I didn't know what to do. I didn't think it was rape, but it was definitely not okay. My contact at SBO explained that it wasn't rape, but it was a kind of sexual assault. Without them, I don't think I ever would have told anybody.

C.J., 43. SAN BERNADINO, CA. January 2025.

There was this guy at work who kept creeping on me. He would say all kinds of lewd, inappropriate things. I didn't know if it was sexual harassment or not. SBO explained the different kinds of harassment and helped me work through the situation. Before that, I was afraid to say anything.

REESA, 17. NEW YORK CITY. December 2024.

When I was fifteen, one of my brother's idiot friends roofied me. Our parents were out of town and they were all drinking. Other than a sip of wine a few times, I was inexperienced with alcohol. The guy kept pressuring me to drink. I thought 'okay, I'll just have a little bit'. It was vodka and orange juice. I woke up the next morning having no idea what the hell happened. All the guys, including my brother, were gone. I didn't know what to report or to who. Eventually I told a friend, and she said that maybe it was just the alcohol. I have more experience with alcohol since then, and I know it wasn't just alchol. I couldn't tell my mom and dad and I didn't want to go to the police. I just needed to tell somebody. My contact at SBO said that it was too late to do anything legally, but documenting it and talking about it really did make me feel better about the whole thing.